Being the parent of a child with ADHD poses unique challenges, frustrations, and rewards. Many parents struggle to communicate effectively with their children and feel exasperated over having to repeat instructions or rules.

"[Kirk] Martin encourages parents to speak softly and whisper at times. 'It helps your child learn to listen more attentively.' He also warns parents not to fall into the trap of requiring a child to maintain eye contact. 'Instead, let your child play with something...or move while you are speaking. This will actually increase attention and retention,' explains Martin."

Martin also suggests setting unusual time limits. For instance, instead of telling a child that the family is leaving in 5 minutes, challenge him to "set a record" by picking up all of his Legos in 3½ minutes. Read more at ADD.About.com.

Labels: communication, advice, whispering

Posted By: Aspen Education Group